body transformations; build yourself a body that gets you in the game, not out of it

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men that seek pick up artist materials are having no success with ladies, but more importantly, most of those guys are having no success anywhere else either. success fuels belief and action and it is necessary to keep believing and moving, so it is very hard to try to get really good at anything if the individual trying to has had no previous instances of success and similar levels of accomplishment as they try to obtain. effective people are so because they have methods and habits that work, and they tend to be accomplished in many different areas. frustrated people, conversely, have poor methods and habits across the board.

a lot of the men that have a fondness for pua materials and are members of pua communities are in this situation, where they are not being particularly successful anywhere. generally they have limited experience with women, a lot are young folks, most have had only a few outstanding accomplishments in life and haven’t achieved independent financial standing, for most their professional and personal trajectory is limited also. confidence also tends to be in short supply, because of all these reasons and more. and crucially, almost everyone in that position has a massive room for improvement in how they look. your appearance is key, it tells volumes before a word has been spoken, and based on looks people will tend to put you in a category from which it’s almost impossible to escape only with just what you say. it’s also true that some ladies won’t even give you a chance to prove yourself if they don’t like your looks, image is huge for a lot of women.

grooming and fashion are huge, they speak of your self-esteem, your self-image (the concept you have of yourself), your confidence, your social smarts, your purchasing power, your tastes, a lot of stuff really. there is a huge industry devoted to fashion, from magazines, to image coaches, check that stuff out and develop a style that helps you get results. if you are already going to be wearing clothes, and they can be so determinant, better put the time and effort into creating an image that helps, not hinders you. grooming, on the other hand, encompasses from your haircut and hairdo, the products you apply to your mane or lack thereof, how you care for your beard and face, your general hygiene, nails, clothing (proper fit and cleanness) and so on. there’s also help available for this matter, find what the experts say and pay attention to it. there’s also the touchy matter of a particular man’s attractiveness or beauty, and contrary to what a lot of pua gurus try to argue for the sake of selling, it does matter a lot when attracting women. but, in the end, with whatever you got, make the best out of it. anyway, noticeable deformations, malformations, those things will involuntarily grab people’s attention and take away from your first impression and what you are trying to communicate. if that’s your case, start and keep working on all areas of yourself and as soon as you have a chance, get rid of your situation through surgery, prosthetics or anything necessary.

then there is the matter of this post. another massive aspect is how your looks reflect your habits and choices through life. a guy as ripped as michael phelps, or as tony horton, does not communicate the same thing with their corporal image as a weak, unhealthy, scrawny or overweight dude. women are attracted to well built, muscular, athletic guys, for a lot of reasons, not only strength and power but also because a sculpted body speaks of discipline, wherewithal and success. everyone’s physique is the same in essence, there’s muscle, bone, tendons, ligaments, cartilage, and they will respond and strengthen when treated right. as has been said, a lot of factors put you closer to or farther from success, from achievement in other areas of life, to your professional standing, your current experience with women, what do you communicate and transmit when interacting with ladies, how developed your masculinity is, how comfortable you are with your sexuality, your identity, your wants and needs, how good you are at selling what you have to offer; and a huge further list. the one area where any man who wants to improve with women and have choice and pleasure in his life can work on is their body image. ironically, it can be one of the areas where you have the fastest and most observable improvement, it’s ideal because your progress depends only on yourself and your discipline, never on others, and exercising is to be pursued not only because it helps you look more attractive, but crucially because it will help develop your masculinity and other positive traits and give you proof of how effective methods and habits make all the difference.

the more you work out and push yourself, the more attractive you’ll be, the more confident you’ll feel, but there’s also a myriad of other benefits to gain. you’ll build strength and endurance, both physical and mental, you’ll be in much better health, have greater stamina for all kind of activities, you’ll also have more energy to take on new tasks and objectives. you’ll be more sexually attractive for the ladies, and you sexual performance will also be boosted which will generate a virtuous cycle over time. and building yourself a killer body will constitute a success referral of its own for you, giving you belief and confidence to translate to your task of a building a player lifestyle.

so get moving, get in action, people in the videos below show that anyone can build themselves a killer body, it takes know-how (learning from experts), hard, effective work, discipline and enjoyment (more on this on posterior posts). a lot of those people were already in their 30’s when they started out their transformations, had full time jobs, marriages, families and other stuff going on. a single guy, with no other commitments should definitely be able to pull this out. start eating right, learn about nutrition, pay attention to what your body tells you. let your hunger for success and love be reflected in the drive with the which you pursue a body transformation and a bigger life transformation. practice sports, and especially martial arts, you’ll learn of and live teamwork, discipline, commitment, and you’ll be testing and proving yourself. if you take a martial art that involves combat, you’ll be stepping into the fray alone and relying entirely on your resources, a beautiful analogy of what it takes to sweep a lady off her feet. exercising and taking part in sports and martial arts will help you build a more attractive body which will communicate all the right things, it will also help you grow your masculinity and develop an identity as an athlete and warrior. so, bring it, come on and bring it.

jeremy wade

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jeremy wade is an english biologist and zoologist. he is a self taught expert in freshwater extreme fishing, and came to prominence through an animal planet show he hosts: -river monsters-.

wade is a fine illustration of many desirable traits for a player. it’s hard to tell just from the available information whether he also has any game or not, but he could easily get very good if he put his mind into it. some of the attractive traits jeremy wade has are his expertise, he goes into uncommon situations, some of which involve danger, and he’s always got previous experience he can rely on. he’s polished, the hours of dedication and hard work show through. he’s knowledgeable, for an outdoor activity like extreme angling, a lot of different knowledge comes handy, from travel possibilities, weather, local living conditions and fluency in foreign languages, safety precautions and preparations, nutrition and foods to avoid, first aids, basic medicine and so on.

wade, from the mastery of his trade and his environment, is an assured and very masculine man. you can see the decisive and calm body movement. river monsters is the most popular show ever in animal planet, and this is in big part, because wade can cause normal people to be interested in these river fish and angling, but in big part also because wade makes many women piqued and interested in the show, his exploits and himself. these are all desirable traits for an aspiring player to have, be an expert, knowledgeable, develop your masculinity.

there are other traits that wade exhibits in his show and work that resonate with women on a very primitive way. humankind is not far removed from living in tribes in the wild fighting tooth and nail for survival. we lived tens of thousands of years in those conditions, and biologically still operate in that level (more on this and on master desmond morris on posterior posts), so civilization is always trying to fight and supplant those impulses. but civilization is still losing that war, women will respond overwhelmingly to these primitive, animalistic traits. wade masters the wild and imposes his will on the environment, that’s huge, we got to where we are at because our ancestors fought and won every battle against nature. this extreme angler would have the issue of bringing home the bacon readily handled, and that, being a provider is also huge. wade is a man who could protect and foster his people, that’s another trait that attracts women massively. he’s also a leader of his crew, and of the locals he runs into, directing and keeping everyone safe; with such leadership also being an enormous turn on for ladies.

and his temperament. also pay attention to the emotional states. can you picture jeremy wade breaking down helplessly? can you imagine him crying and bitching, complaining he is a victim of the circumstances? absolutely not, and if you built for yourself such a proud, cultivated character, chances are you wouldn’t either. there’s a lot of freely available material in the internet, both in youtube and in animal planet’s website, check out jeremy wade as a fine exponent of masculinity and mastery and grow those traits into yourself.

footage from his show animal planets website:

http://animal.discovery.com/tv/river-monsters/

excerpts from his show on youyube: